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Post by
woohaa
the way i read it was that after 6 months he started dating his friends ex. Neither of them bothered to tell the friend about the relationship or gave him the courtesy of asking him if it was okay. His friend basically said that they stabbed him in the back and that he wasn't his "bro" anymore blah blah blah.
imo the issue is whether or not as "friends" you believe in the golden rule.
Friends' Ex-girlfriends or Ex-boyfriends are off-limits
If you don't think this rule has any merit then whatever. in 10 years this rule doesn't really apply anymore and people move on with their lives. When you're young your view of the world is very narrow. Like looking at something with a microscope. All you see is a few cells. When you take a step back you see the big picture. As far as teen angst drama, yes you should have asked him before dating her. Regardless if you needed his permission or not as your friend he deserved to atleast know about it. The fact that you didn't bother to even notify him, tells him that you don't care about his feelings and that you must not care about his friendship.
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gamerunknown
Oh, I never thought of it from a logistics point of view. I'd never hang out with an ex-girlfriend, but I have no problem at all hanging out with a friend and their girlfriend. I'd feel a little wounded if their relationship got in the way of us hanging out and a hypothetical friend going out with an ex would cause exactly that problem.
Post by
Gzer0
According the comments and replies , I figured out that I haven't actually done something wrong .
When you take a step back you see the big picture. As far as teen angst drama, yes you should have asked him before dating her.
During these 6 months , my friend has relationship with another girl , and after they broke up , My friend wanted to date his pervious girl friend again.When i see this action , I couldn't stand it anymore , And i dated with her.
So I don't think so that i had to ask him before dated with her.
Post by
MyTie
The "love square": now twice as dramatic as the "love triangle".
To illustrate what I think of your situation, allow me to postulate a situation:
If the second girl your bro were dating were to decide to carry on a relationship with the first girl, would she have to ask your permission in order to date her? Then, would your girlfriend then have to talk to him before replying? Do you all mark your territory? Do you have tattoos to show whos property these women are? I think it might be easier to just get buttons with the name of your temporary owner on it.
Don't let love stand in the way of a good drama. It's like Sex and the City meets The Three Stooges meets Twilight.
This really is why teens should just stay away from relationships.
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